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Do we have control over major things in our lives?
Well let me start by saying everyone has control over the things they do or choose not to do. Also everyone has control over their personal material things they own or whatever. Everyone has control over their lives to some degree whether they want to be successful or not whether they want to be living the mediocre life or more.
No one has control over life or death except God. So where do we stand when it comes to controlling major things? In my point of view, we have very little control. However, what separates us from each other is the way we deal with the things that we don’t have control over.
Most of the people that have plans and goals to become somewhat what they want in life can and will eventually achieve that if they do follow their plan. Meaning people can reach the top and they can reach the bottom also based on their actions. So what’s so difficult to understand here? That we can both reach the top and the bottom of the ladder of success and still have control over the way we came to accomplishing it? Yes
So what’s your point here?
Well believe it or not, it’s not how you reach the top or the bottom that really matters is how you handle success or failure that really counts. It’s called learning how to manage, learning how to deal with things your not accustomed to dealing with, learning how to find a good thing in every bad situation, learning how to rise victorious from every tough situation. Learning how to face the music and learn from it.
So look at your life and see what you got control over and don’t freak out if you saw lots of things that you don’t control, just start thinking of a plan. Call it the “Disaster Recovery plan” I don’t know some name. “How to deal plan” whatever fits your mood. It’s good to get your mind thinking of how I would deal with situation that I don’t like but that might as well happen. Once you’ve learned how to deal, you can call yourself a successful person but until then you’re nothing but a living surviving soul.