Sometimes You Gotta say Whata Flip
A couple of things I learned ..
People change and SOME Don’t. People don’t have to change inorder for us to get along with them. We have to learn how to Deal with each Character on the face of this planet. It sounds Impossibe but in my point of View it is Doable. Depending how smart you are, you can learn and achieve a smart way of dealing with different Characters.
First step is always called observation. You observe the “X” character see how she or he reacts to a certain situation, on a certain time in a certain place. Once this step is done, we move to the second step which is understanding the character itself. I refer to this as a chess game, u gotta make ur right move at the right time or else u checkmated. in other words.. to Relate to this matter.. here’s an example… Don’t Take shit FROM NOBODY.. b\c once u do.. other ppl are gonna join the club and dish more shit to ya.. so the trick is Not to dish it out in ma point of view.. rather Prevent it from even takin place in the first place. Like they say ” Don’t talk unless u can improve on silence”.. if u dont get urself ahead of the game ur still IN it.. I learned to take problems as opportunities in ma life.. this helped me out ALOT. Never be negative however always look into the positvie aspect of the problem no matter what, u will always find opportunity sitting there waiting for ya . Surrounding urself with positive ppl is always the way to go.. to acheive ur goals as well as your dreams. One last thing Nobody can make u feel inferior without ur consent
“It aint always Pretty BUT IT GETS PRETTIER ”
I hope this would educate whoever is interested peace out !
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Wow, all of this is really good advice! I liked the part “Don’t talk unless u can improve on silence.” Actually I’ve never heard that before.
I also liked the part where you said “Never be negative however always look into the positvie aspect of the problem no matter what, u will always find opportunity sitting there waiting for ya.” That’s the same way that I try to look at things. It reminds me of “Attitude” by Charles Swindoll. (I did a paper on it in one of my classes
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Thanks Eric.. I read the Attitude by “Charles Swindoll” it’s very close to what I was saying. I think I even used one of his quotes in the past as ” 10 % of life is what happens to ya and 90 % is how we react to it” If you have any thoughts about ths matter or similar advices please go ahead and share it ! peace